Everyone is focused on the next thing. Everyone is racing to the Next Thing.
Well, I got caught up in that for a really long time — so much so, that I could never really enjoy what I WAS doing, because I was always worried about what I was going to be doing.
I tell you all this, because I know right now everybody’s asking you those same questions: “What are you gonna do after graduation? Do you have a job? Where will you be working? How much are they paying? Where are you going? Where will you be living? Who are you seeing?” Oh, my God — so many questions!
But today, I have one wish for you. Before you go out and press that fast forward button, I’m hoping — I’m praying — that you’ll have the courage to first press the pause button.
That’s right: the pause button. I hope if you learn anything from me today, you learn and remember — The Power of the Pause.
I’m asking you to learn how to pause, because I believe the state of our communication is out of control. And you? I believe you have the incredible opportunity to fix it…by changing our communication.
Change it from criticism and fault-finding to understanding and compassion. Change it from nay-saying and name-calling to acceptance and appreciation.
Change it from dissembling and dishonesty to openness and explanation.
Change from screaming to speaking.
Edmund Hillary once said, “It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.”